6 Life-Changing Truths I Wish I Knew at 18
Time to reset, refocus, and reclaim your path to success!
Whether you’re 18, just graduating college, in your 20s or 40s, single, and aiming for financial stability, this journey is all about finding clarity, building good habits, and making time your friend. Let's talk about the best ways to achieve your goals and create a community.
As women we’ve been socialized to please others. But your true power lies in your authenticity. Don’t be afraid to embrace who you are—flaws and all. The sooner you stop trying to fit into a mold, the sooner you’ll find the right opportunities, people, and experiences that align with your true self. Authenticity attracts the right kind of success and happiness.
1. The Power of Small Steps: The Aggregation of Marginal Gains
What It Means: Small, consistent improvements add up to big changes over time.
How It Works: Think of it like adding sprinkles to your cupcake—one or two might not make a difference, but keep adding, and you’ve got a party!
Takeaway: Start small. Whether it's saving an extra $10 a week or waking up 10 minutes earlier, these tiny steps make a huge difference.
2. Habits: Your Secret Weapon
Habits Are the Compound Interest of Self-Improvement: Just like saving money, good habits grow over time.
Good Habits Make Time Your Ally; Bad Habits Make Time Your Enemy: Choose habits that build you up.
Four Stages of Habit Formation: Noticing, wanting, doing, and liking.
Example: Notice you want a healthier lifestyle, want to change, start doing small workouts, and soon you’ll like how you feel!
3. Clarity Over Motivation
The Truth: Many people think they lack motivation when they really lack clarity.
Solution: Define your goals clearly. What does financial stability look like for you? A dream job, a savings goal, or being debt-free?
4. Set Up for Success
Give Your Goals a Time and Place: Write down your goals and when and where you'll work on them.
Remove Barriers: Put more steps between you and the bad habits, and fewer steps between you and the good ones.
Example: If social media is a distraction, log out of your accounts and keep your phone away while working.
5. Start Smart, Not Hard
Optimize for the Starting Line, Not the Finish Line: Focus on starting rather than finishing.
Short-Term Feedback: Celebrate small wins to keep your momentum going.
Example: Treat yourself to a nice dinner after a week of sticking to your budget!
6. Embrace the Feminine Strength
Empathy and Humor: Understand your unique challenges and use them to fuel your growth.
Be Kind to Yourself: It's okay to have off days. Remember, progress isn't linear.
One Change to Make Today
Challenge: Identify one small habit you can change today. It could be as simple as drinking more water or setting aside 15 minutes for personal development.
Remember: Success isn't about a massive overhaul; it's about tiny, consistent actions that align with your goals and values. So, grab your favorite journal, jot down your next small step, and let's make magic happen!
Feel empowered, stay focused, and enjoy the journey! After all, you've got the whole world ahead of you, and it's yours to take.
xoxo